Valerie Holden

For 20 years, I served as a police officer, embodying strength, resilience, and no-nonsense practicality. Yet, despite my outward success, at one point I found myself crying into my husband’s chest, feeling lost and empty, searching for meaning beyond my uniform. I knew deep down there had to be something more, but I had no idea how to find it.

I had buried the sensitive, vulnerable woman inside me, forced to be the strong officer everyone expected. I had no one to turn to—no coaches, no girlfriends who understood the unique challenges I faced. That moment was my wake-up call. It was time for a change.

The “woo” had always been a part of me—a quiet, intuitive side that had been stifled for too long. It was time for it to come to the surface. And so, I began my transformation from a no-nonsense police officer to a holistic healer and mentor.

But the bossiness? Well, that’s always been there, too. I’m a Sagittarius—it’s in my nature. My baby book even said I was bossy! I’ve been telling people what to do for their safety since I was a lifeguard, a flight attendant, and later a police officer. The difference now is that I’ve combined that assertiveness with my intuitive, compassionate side, creating what I call Bossy Woo™—a unique blend of practicality and spirituality, tough love and healing energy.

Even now, I mentor people by blending my bossy nature with my spiritual gifts. I help you break through blocks, find your purpose, and step into your full power. The bossiness comes from a place of care—because I’ve been where you are. I know what it’s like to feel lost and disconnected, and I know how transformative it is when you finally tap into your true potential.

Through Bossy Woo™, I empower you to develop the confidence to pursue your dreams, the awareness to know you’re on the right path, and the spiritual connection to align with the Divine whenever you need guidance.

Bossy Woo™ is no longer just the way I work with my clients.

Bossy Woo™ is no longer just a program.

Bossy Woo™ is and ATTITUDE! It’s clarity – confidence – courage.

Bossy Woo™ is YOU living your life the way that YOU want to.

This work can change your life—just like it did for Teresa:

“Love this place and Valerie. She is top-notch, not sure where I would be without her help, but thanks to her I am a better version of myself. I am excited to live a better life and experience what my happier future holds for me. Now that the chains are gone that restricted so much of me, I feel freer than I ever have! Thank you, Valerie ♥️” – Teresa S.

Is This You?

• You’ve built a good life, but something still feels missing. You’re successful on the outside, but deep down, there’s a nagging feeling that you’re meant for more.
• You sense that there’s something bigger calling you, but you just can’t pinpoint what it is or how to get there.
• You’ve spent years taking care of others—your family, your career, your friends—and now you’re realizing that you’ve neglected yourself in the process.
• You’ve followed the path that was expected of you, but now you’re ready to stop living for everyone else and start living for YOU.

If any of this resonates, I’m here to help. I see you, because I’ve been where you are. I understand the longing for something deeper, something more aligned with who you truly are.

Let me guide you through the process of uncovering your true desires, breaking through the blocks that are holding you back, and stepping into your power with confidence and clarity. It’s time to follow your Bossy Woo™ and start living the life you’re truly meant to live.